Ep.4 – Someone Hates What I Do I On My Cello

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Ep.4 – Someone Hates What I Do I On My Cello

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In this unapologetic and empowering episode, I get real about something every creative person faces at some point: not everyone is going to love what you do. And that’s okay. 🎻✨

I share my thoughts on dealing with negativity, criticism, and the reality that someone, somewhere, will dislike your playing, your art, or even just you. But guess what? Their opinions are not your problem. Your job is to show up, play for yourself, and connect with the people who love what you do.

Oh, and controversial take incoming – I’m not fussed about the Elgar Cello Concerto. Gasp! But there’s a lesson in that too, and I break it down in this episode.

Tune in to hear why you should stop carrying the weight of other people’s opinions and instead, focus on playing, creating, and sharing your brilliance with those who truly appreciate it. 🎶

Key Takeaways:
🎵 Not everyone will love what you do – and that’s normal.
🎵 Criticism isn’t a reflection of your worth or talent.
🎵 Play for yourself and for the people who genuinely enjoy your music.
🎵 Letting go of the need for approval = creative freedom.
🎵 Haters are just background noise – focus on your craft.

Share Your Thoughts!
What’s a moment when you realised you can’t please everyone? Drop me a message and let’s chat about it! 🎻💬

Thanks for listening!

Jay x

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Hi! I’m Jay Émme, a professional solo and session cellist, and a certified performance coach! I absolutely LOVE seeing creatives excel and flourish in their journey.

I have worked with and been seen/heard on BBC Radio 3, Radio 4, BBC World Service, ITV, Classic FM, Bridgerton, Queen Charlotte, and Netflix, and have recorded at Abbey Road Studios and Maida Vale Studios London, and Smecky Studios Prague. I have also performed with various artists, key figures, and celebrities such as HRH Princess Anne, Alicia Keys, Olympic Team GB, Amanda Holden, Symphonic Ibiza, UK Proms Orchestra, Akash Odedra, Joan Armatrading, Stormzy, Ebony Bones, and many more.